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Im a man who cant orgasm through vaginal sex

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I am a healthy guy in my 30s. I do not have an issue if I masturbate, however cant climax throughout sexual intercourse

I am a male in my 30s without any health issue, however although I can reach orgasm through masturbation, I am not able to climax throughout vaginal sex. What can I do?

First, you have to determine the factor for your orgasmic difficulty. Is it that, in order to climax, you need a greater level of friction? Is the masturbation design you have established one that does not quickly shift to partner sexual intercourse? Exists something about vaginal sexual intercourse that turns you off maybe the design is too vanilla?

Doing some self-analysis to acquire a particular understanding of the root of this issue will assist you to discover a service. If you need more friction, you might hold yourself firmly at the base of your penis or teach a partner to do so. Or you might alternate with other designs of penetration or stroking, making certain that you go back to vaginal sex once you reach the point of ejaculatory inevitability.

If you have an extensive mental distaste for vaginal penetration, this would recommend a requirement for some psychosexual treatment if you feel adequately inspired to seek it. If you are indifferent in vaginal sexual intercourse, as a less amazing type of eroticism, this may indicate a have to mix your favored sexual designs in an innovative and more gratifying way. You might require both determination and imagination to resolve your issue.

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist specialising in sexual conditions.

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